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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
So you're about 17 now? Are you still living with your sister/family?
I don't think you intended to hurt her. Nor do I think that anything can be gained by telling her or your parents given that it happened 5 years ago and the behavior stopped as you didn't know it was wrong and you stopped.
I think you should try to work on self forgiveness.
This is a grey area and has the potential to be grossly misconstrued if you discuss this in anything but an anonymous fashion. I'm not trying to scare you, however things like this in the hands of a crusader type can do more damage than good.
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Yes I am still living with my sister and my family. I told my mom yesterday and she did not judge me, at my first she didn't believe me, she thought I did more than the pecks. She forgave me and told me she would have to tell my father, I accepted. She told me she loved and forgave me and everyone makes mistakes and can't beat myself up for it. I feel a little better, but whenever I think about it I just feel a level of shame and disgust. It just hurts me that I'm gonna have to take this with me the rest of my life. And I don't want to I wish I could have just forgotten it and I wish even more it never happened
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