I would actually ask her directly why she hadn't set time aside specifically for me.


I would definitely want to know where I stand before I make plans for my next holiday. And if my friend doesn't think I'm important enough to untangle herself from her new love for 2 or 3 days, then I'd be making alternate holiday plans in future.


PS. I can only do third wheel if the couple are friends beyond lovers. Because these couples know how to behave in those situations, which eradicates the awkward factor.