Gtr, Justice, Eskie, and Wants...Thanks for the feedback. I actually did respond to the handsome fella who lives not far from me, but I also recall that I've seen his pic for years on the other dating sites as I perused them. I probably sounded too ambivalent, though I invited him to reply if he cared to, telling me more about himself. He didn't . No surprise. I find that men are not very interested in correspondence and getting to know each other that way first before meeting in person. He actually attached his personal email (deleted by Christian Cafe) and phone number. In my experience, meeting men on the internet, they are impatient ot meet and get right "to it!" My rule for future meetings is that the man must be willing to correspond at least for a while...Is this unreasonalble?
Patty