<font color="#000088">I don't think that is unreasonable at all. In fact, I think it's very important to really get to know somebody better before getting involved with them. And if they don't agree, than you just move on to someone else. Because if all they want is to meet up immediately, without getting to know you first, then that's a good sign of what's really on their mind!
I think setting up those types of bounderies, and rules with meeting guys online, is really good for your own safety!
In no way is it unreasonable for you to want to keep yourself safe! </font>