Thanks for your support! I think I had a therapist advise the same thing to just stop the video games and playing period....It is just that they there are also use to me playing video games too, I just have to find a way to ween them...It's like I'm not experiencing 100%, I agree though they have to find a way to adjust millions of children out here have to, whether it is medical or psychological. They have to learned they are not entitled to anything I wish everything was/ is remains perfect, it is just not life... The way things happen it is not just, oh well something bad happened to me they will start build on questions and probing to get more of my business.....it's the strangest thing ever...Anyway, I know what to do from now on. I'm going to tell them to go into that as a major in school so that they don't have to know all my business and their family ancestor's stuff...It is too much and can flaw relationships that don't need to be altered just yet.