Sorry, no free passes here!

I would be livid at you and my parents for y'all knowing you did this to me in my sleep and then conspired to keep it a secret from me!

You violated her boundaries while she was asleep and THAT IS NOT OKAY!

No matter how innocent or innocuous you claim it to be!

Only your sister can decide if she is or isn't okay with what happened, and only SHE can forgive you!

It's all about betrayal of trust!

The first betrayal of trust happened when you crossed a boundary with her while you thought she was sleeping.

The second betrayal of trust is the lie and deceit that you and your parents are committing in order to keep this a secret from her.

None of this is okay in any way shape or form, and if y'all aren't willing to be open and honest with her about it then it's downright evil as well.

Sincerely,
Pfrog!