Welcome to the Psych Central community, dontFindOutMe. First and foremost, you are not worthless. You are a worthy, worthwhile, and unique human being. You have worked to reduce your weight successfully. You are as attractive as you feel, and any woman worth her salt will appreciate your intelligence and personality, and not be hung up on your outward appearance. And I have no doubt from your post that you are intelligent. You're also very good at beating yourself up. You work hard and you have a passion for programming and music. Someone special will come along for you.
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Dx Bipolar II 2014 -- currently in remission
Stay calm, be kind, have hope, love lots, and be well.
"Listen to the deep voice of your soul. Do not be distracted by the voice of your mind." -- Caitlin Matthews[/B][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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