I think boundaries are important for me because I have a tendency to get attached to people, especially when I start to open up to them. My T has not been a T for very long but has some pretty solid boundaries which I appreciate. Sometimes I wish that they weren't there but then I realize that they are there for a reason and it would not be helpful for me to not not have them. We don't talk about boundaries because I don't push them nor ask about them. I'm sure that if I were to start pushing her boundaries, we would talk about it.