I had this issue for 10 yrs with my recent ex bf always giving him money yet he could get a job himself. he is like his dad takes advantage of others yet accused me quite a bit of taking advantage of him. When I let go of our relationship, I told him he was on his own financially that was when he got a new job that hadn't start yet and I refuse to give him a ride back home.

I tried helping ex get a job he can perfectly do that on his own yet refused to work on the applications he was so damn slow at it. Everything was my fault the due date was closed, well who missed it? He did apparently but still my fault. The way he's spending now not good.