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Originally Posted by stopdog
The only time is has come up for me is in terms of a therapist reassuring me they have them so they won't intrude upon me and that they will stay back. The first one I see has said she has "excellent boundaries", but I also know she invited another client over to her house to watch a sporting event and that she sought that client out by going to their house one time after the client's suicide threat to check up on her. So excellent may be a bit of an overstatement from that one.
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Yes, my experience has been very much like lolagrace's - we just don't get hung up on them, and they aren't big issues. I do suspect the therapists who tend to talk about them a lot may sometimes be doing so because they have struggled with them in the past. It would make me a bit suspicious.