My T has never talked about boundaries. I've brought up mine once or twice but for the most part there's really no discussion. I didn't even really think about boundaries until I read some posts on PC. That being said I haven't had any issues. My T's behavior is consistent.
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“It's a funny thing... but people mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really, what guides them is what they're afraid of.” ― Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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