But, I think that this whole boundary thing doesn't have to be a huge deal and seem weird and mysterious. My T is very transparent and seemingly genuine. Just yesterday I left after waiting for 25 minutes (which i've never done), and I was pissed! I could hear her laughing in the room with the client, and it put me over the edge.

She called me when I was walking home and apologized profusely, saying that she mis-read the clock when she looked up at it, and thought she was only a half-hour in instead of an hour and a half. I still think that's a little crazy to lose track of time like that, but she does get very involved when you are in session with her.

Anyway, she apologized, but I was pretty short with her on the phone. I was still mad. She sent me an e-mail after, saying she felt bad, and that in the future she'll set a timer for her sessions. To me, she made a big mistake, but she owned up to it and told me how she'd fix it in the future--much like if you ****ed up with a friend. You'd apologize and figure out a way so it didn't happen again.

Anyway, that was a bit off track.