I have a wonderfully supportive and loving family

Abby are they too wonderful ? Are you surrounded by so much health it is hard to be unhealthy? I am wondering how this feeds in to the dissociation and cut off that leads to secret self harm.

It is very possible to become isolated by wonderful and supportive family health, if you feel like human wreckage & feel required to perform to the same standard.

I have felt this in my extended family, who had a hard time 'seeing' or 'acknowledging' personal and emotional crumple as something that could not be instantly fixed by hugs or presents or weekly loving phone calls.