Do you speak directly with him about this? And what does he says or thinks about it? That would be interesting. I know the struggle when the partner is not very interested in sex. I need it to feel good in my body and to feel connected with my partner. I do not need it daily but it was a mess as we had not sex for months It triggered me into depression, hypomania and depression again. Last year we discussed the problem very intense! I also talk about thoughts of divorce. Now we give it another try.