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Originally Posted by stopdog
I think one can both have an apology and still be mad. The feelings of wronged don't immediately and magically dissipate just because of it (they may feel less injured) and I think therapy is a place to tell the therapist how angry or hurt or what it made you. Even if you accept the apology it does not mean one does not get to talk about it -- in my opinion.
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My T has always clearly made the boundaries about her. "I don't mind getting texts from you but I do need to put my phone aside in the evenings so I can give my family responsibilities attention"
She's totally clear on more attention would probably be GREAT for me but that she is only one person and she's learned what she can and can't do and still take care of herself. She tries to teach me things to do when she can't be available