Yes, correct, it's quite obvious that a parent gets in denial about a son's depressions: it's supposed to be his/her fault.

Over 30 and home again? Me too. That's all too common nowadays. Moreover I also WORK with my parents at the family shop, so therapy is an absolute need if I'm not to slay both
I keed, I keed

OK, keep on searching for a therapist and keep posting here. I have discovered this forum just in the last few months and it is a GREAT help.