My ex-T was exteemely unreliable in spite if our disturbingly close relationship. She would constantly forget to do things she promised (like call my pdoc to consult), or email me something she promised to email me. Whenever she offered to do something like that, I never really believed it would happen. I also didn't really trust that she could help me get better and I knew deep down my issues were way over her head. She also never seemed that smart (as awful as that sounds). But I did trust her to love me and never abandon me.

I trust this one to follow up with stuff like that 100% and she always does it right away. I also trust her to do what she thinks She needs to do to keep me safe, even if I don't really like it. I also trust that she cares and likes me and genuinely wants to do what's best for me so I can get better. I also trust that she's competent and smart and experienced and she doesn't judge me.