[QUOTE=JustShakey;4854559]I'm currently debating the wisdom of ever venturing into relationship territory again. T made a comment last session that he hoped that I would before the year is out. I'm a little put out at him for it honestly. This divorce is a dramatic nightmare - police reports and custody issues on top of all the usual emotional sh^t. And DV flashbacks. I suppose that's what it is... How in the hell am I supposed to have a 'normal' relationship if I randomly freak out over imaginary threats of violence and/or emotional manipulation.
This year?! This YEAR?!!! Damn T. Try this lifetime.

Okay, breathe Shakey... But you see my point![/QUOTE

That's nuts and insensitive.
It could take years before you are ready for a new relationship.