Have you actually been diagnosed professionally? I ask because you say they haven't given you a diagnosis yet, but you list quite a few diagnoses on your profile. If you believe you do hold these diagnoses, a formal evaluation might be the place to start so that your therapist has a clearer idea of what is going on. It might be that the therapist is not really experienced in working with your diagnosis and if it is what you list on your profile, a very highly trained and experienced therapist is probably a must.