So i was approved for (military)disability and received backpay. my mom is angry that i didn't give her a substantial amount of MY money. She wanted MORE than what i gave!!! My mother has always been poor her entire life so i guess she was looking to use me to cash in. she even said that i didn't earn this money so why am i being this way. ( that hurt )Shes trying to make me feel bad about this but i don't feel like i owe her any of the money that i have. Its not my fault that my mom is poor and struggling and not my responsibility to fix it. BUT i do help out as needed and I always have. I think she is also controlling and is angry that she can't control the situation and make me give her more money. does anyone have any advice or opinions, relate?