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Originally Posted by JustJenny
Completely agree with the above. How long have you known each other? If I were you I would stop texting/calling him. And don't invite him anywhere yourself.
1. You deserve a big apology from that guy
2. You deserve a better guy
It is normal that men want sex. When I and my now husband started dating, he would give me some hints. I would say "I am not ready for that" and he was accepting that every time. We had lots of fun together without anything sexual and that's what made me realize that the relationship was real and stable.
My advice - don't give in. He sounds like a person you cannot have a happy relationship with. There is a great chance you will feel "used" if you do sleep with him. You obviously have a bad start. No person has a right to go psycho on another person just like that.
Also, avoid being alone with him. He sounds like a person who can physically harm you.
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We met once by working together about two years ago. We went on a date last summer. He asked me out for the first time last late winter or spring. We know some of the same people. He's pretty skinny guy. He gives a lot of red flags,but i wasn't going to have sex with him. He says sweet things like i'm the first girl he had a crush on when he moved here. It's just hard. I'm going through a low time right now and don't have many friends or anything so part of me just wants to to have him to hang out with for solace but just hanging out and seeing what happens.