I know huh. Manic decision. Talked to Dr re pills, but since his manly parts are working Dr said wouldn't help. I haven't explored the testosterone.
We've been together for 20 years. It's like living with your best friend. I had a secret, but no more. He died young and unexpectedly.
My new psy meds lower my sex drive. So that helps. But lack of full release keeps me tense and feeling unloved. Boo hoo.