hey Dorsey, i'd like to tell you a few things I noticed about what you said in your post. it's pretty common for people who avoid conflict to stuff things and eventually flip out. Its like a dam breaking and always comes out wrong because its so "tainted" with unresolved pain.(nasty stuff) I also noticed that you said "i deserve to be treated with respect" thats true Dorsey, but if you're using this "imperfection"or "failing" of other people as an "entitlement trigger" to feel a certain way, then it's you who has chosen to be offended/hurt/angry...we can ALL do better than that...