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Originally Posted by rainbow8
I just got my email. Generic. Hope you're doing well and see you tomorrow. So she did forget because this is her normal appointment reminder after a longer sbsence. I worry and she's fine. I agree, Aloan. In my mind, T's promise was binding, and she broke it. She told me she would email when she got back, and told me that she was going to be back Saturday. She knows I worry; that's why she said it. I'm angry with her anyway; this just makes it worse. I would normally email back to say thanks, see you tomorrow, but I'm in the mood of lashing out so I might not. She could have taken 10 seconds to email "I'm back" yesterday. But she didn't. She forgot.
These are my feelings. Please don't anyone tell me I shouldn't feel them.
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I'm sorry your t has disappointed you. You have every right to feel the way you do. I had a similar situation happen with my t and it hurt like h*ll. I feel for you.
Aloan put it best saying when our t's tell us they will do something, it's like "the God's have spoken." When they don't follow through, it is devastating. To be clear, I know this is not the case for everyone, or even the majority.
Hope you can let your t know how her actions impacted you when you see her tomorrow. Let us know how it goes if you do. Sending you hugs for relief (if you want 'em)!