I would tell old T that I felt she was frustrated with me. She said it was the transference. I think it was her personality and inability to say "of course I'm not frustrated with you". Instead she would ask me how I know others are frustrated etc. New T says ex T wasn't willing to meet me where I was and give me some of what I needed to hear. If I felt she was so much like my mom, she could have reacted differently to me to show she's not. Instead she would say it's her temperament.

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