I hate when people tell me to call them when i get home. For one thing, maybe im not going straight home. Maybe im stopping at my office, or the grocery store, or something interesting. Plus i usually forget. Im not telling you how to feel. Im just telling you how i feel - and i dont see where your worrying would fit in. Im fine! It feels controlling. Do you report to someone? (Did you and your h do this?) If you are going to worry every time i leave the house, i would tell you to go see a therapist...uh oh...