It sounds like you really need to have this conversation with your T.

I know they are supposed to practice safeguarding even for our own children- but if you are certain that your son would be safe- then it isnt her place.

I have only been seeing my T for 5 months, we have had a 3 week break too and now I have to tell her tomorrow that her telling me what I should do isn't helpful and that she needs to understand why I was doing it (going to my brothers house for Xmas) and how hard it would be and supporting that with telling me that she will be there to help me deal with this better and work through the negative things as my T.

Good luck with your T and I hope you manage to go some way towards sorting it

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