Dear dan, Welcome to Psych Central. Reconciliation means coming to calm with yourself and your neighbors. No matter what you have done, with a change of heart you are a new person. You can offer to help others especially the type of people you feel you harmed.

Everyone has the spark of the divine in them and that is what brings us through the darkness of the human conditioning that makes us do things that in our hearts we know are wrong.

Many people here at PC find they can share these feelings and what they are going through with the confidence that people go through similar things and can empathize. So many forums are offered as well as Chatrooms (after you have 5 posts or comments on others posts). Depression Support Chat Thursday 9PM EST and Anxiety Support Chat Friday at 8PM EST.

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