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Old Jan 04, 2016, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by toysoldier727 View Post
Was not partying, was working 7 days a week plus 2 to 3 extra shifts, 80 to 90 hours a week. Was using meth to stay awake and function. I was 21 when he was born, my oldest is my step-son at 28, he is 26. Never missed a single sports event or school function. Spent too much time at work instead of with kids, but otherwise all my time was work and kids. I am in counselling twice a month. He feels all issues our my fault so he won't consider anything.
okay sorry, but my H worked that much and he never used meth to cope. You said no drugs since 2004 and no alcohol since 2011, in your introductory post. That says you did that prior and during the time you were raising this son. no?? I doubt you were really "present" while raising him and he most certainly was affected.
Were I you, I would apologize and try to work things out. FORGET the car. It is hardly important and not as important as your relationship with him.
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