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Originally Posted by 3RMF
I'm not always comparing myself to others to make myself feel bad. It's just really hard to ignore or dismiss something that you've been told most of your life. If the majority of comments that people made about me were telling me that I was handsome or good looking, I probably wouldn't have low self esteem. I've been told and called many hurtful things throughout the years and ugly is only one of them, there is a lot more than just that that I didn't even include.
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Why are you letting others define your self esteem? Was it you parents that said that stuff* to you? You said you came from a "good family". What is Ugly? What is Beauty? It is all in the eye of the beholder.
You still seem to be fishing for reasons to feel bad about yourself. Who cares what others may have said. I once had a Drill Sargent in the military that told me I was ugly LOL. But that was his job LOL. I never took it personally. You are taking it all to personally to keep yourself feeling bad. Time to stand up and be Proud of yourself
