Oh absolutely dbtdiva. I never meant it's instant. I wouldn't even WANT it to go anything g other than gradual and slow
My comment was because one post seemed to argue that you could pretty much always remain distant from them as they were not yours and you could still have a good relationship with you boyfriend. I don't think that's true. When that happens over a long period of time there is a well of resentment from all sides
You sound like you got this!
Don't worry
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I used to rule the world
Seas would rise when I gave the word
Now in the morning, I sleep alone
Sweep the streets I used to own
I used to roll the dice
Feel the fear in my enemy's eyes
Listen as the crowd would sing
Now the old king is dead! Long live the king!
One minute I held the key
Next the walls were closed on me
And I discovered that my castles stand
Upon pillars of salt and pillars of sand
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