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Originally Posted by stopdog
This therapist knows OP - and knows about the stresses and worries OP has. And offered - this was not in response to OP's request. I do think that being very specific about these sorts of things can be useful.
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Even if my T who knows me very well offers something like "I'll send you a pic from my vacation" we have to discuss the expectations. For example does she mean while she is away ( what I'd expect) or on the way home ( which would disappoint me). a pic of something that makes her think.of me?,a random beach pic?
I think there is a lot to he gained from clarifying expectations. It helps prevent hurt feelings and provides I sight into your deeper needs