Sorry I have not been around for about a month or two. When my cat had to be PTS it threw me really bad. I am still a mess and just not sure I did the right thing Tonight I went and emailed a T I use to see and got a memory is full message back

So many things are crashing in on me and I am wondering too if when I think I will be gone for over say 6 weeks , should I shut my pm's off ? Do you think I will look less rude? I am wondering if that may bother people and maybe that is why I am not too well liked on here. Please let me know your take on when to shut pm off so I have some idea of what is expected here...Thank you ahead and sorry I am such a mess. Its been a lot of work holding a job I work over 12 hrs a day at and dealing with my guilt and grief