I agree..only so long until there will be a blow up. I was always independent & never did well living with my mother & she never did the things your mother has done. I commend you on your patience....but wouldn't want to keep pushing it. Wise move moving out.

Lol every time I tried to get a divorce (bad marriage) he kept saying 2 can live cheaper than 1....however living sanely doesn't have a price on it & when I left..it was the best thing I ever did in my life...don't buy into that logic if your mom tries it with you.