We met once by working together about two years ago. We went on a date last summer. He asked me out for the first time last late winter or spring. We know some of the same people. He's pretty skinny guy. He gives a lot of red flags,but i wasn't going to have sex with him. He says sweet things like i'm the first girl he had a crush on when he moved here. It's just hard. I'm going through a low time right now and don't have many friends or anything so part of me just wants to to have him to hang out with for solace but just hanging out and seeing what happens.