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Old Jan 04, 2016, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by JustJenny View Post
You said you had fights before. What did you fight about?

He sounds like a person who changes masks. Today he is nice and supportive and tomorrow he is mean and and out of temper.
He gets mad when he thinks i said we could hang out and it doesn't happen even though sometimes it's because he tries to make the plans last minute and because of my anxiety issues,last minute plans don't usually work out for me. We also fought because at first last year I wasn't interested in him,really but was kind of open to hang out just to see but I had liked someone else and it was fun but then he just got really clingy wanting to hang out again and I usually don't hang out with guys that quick after a date. Plus,he'd make sexual implications I didn't like. So,things like that. I like old fashioned courtship and admittedly I maybe did kind of string him a long a little bit at first but since December,I've had legit issues where I've had to heal from being sick and panic attacks and had to fix myself up again by catching up on sleep and touching up my hair,going to salon,things like that since i was insecure of how my looks got from stress of panics. He knew all this,too so I was open about it. Basically,I like patience and not being rushed and he likes rushing and makes sexual implications a lot,even more now then he did before. At first,it just seemed mostly "romantic" how he tried to be clingy and I thought maybe he was less experienced since he is slightly younger then me but during fights little things come out that are weird like it seems he will punish me for not meeting his deadline of wanting to meet by ignoring me or just going weird last night freaking out saying monday was my suggestion not his when i never said it was his. Today,though,I am mad because he I told him last night he showed his true colors and he replied what am i talking about and i said he just wants sex and gets mad whenever he doesn't get it and he was still standing by what he said saying I was crazy last night and I hate when people call me crazy. It makes me insecure. Then he tried complimenting a pic of me i posted online and acted like I should be really happy about that which was insulting so i told him one day i'll just disappear and no one will ever hear from me again because i was depressed about things and he just said okay. I think he is too immature for me.