Sex shouldn't even be a topic at this point!!!!!!! Sweet talking to get you into a relationship then it doesn't matter if you want to have sex after a year he feels like he caught you & can force you...or sweet talk you into agreeing to what he wants with no regard to what you want.

Honestly ALL the RED FLAGS negate any sweet talking & promises that come out of his mouth....don't bother even trying to include them into the picture...it's a waste of time & energy. He's showed his true colors while trying to paint you a rosey picture. All that crap about Calif...he's just trying to lure you into his trap. Don't be gullible just because you are desperate for someone to care about you....his words & his caring ARE FAKE. Don't waste your time trying to make them into something they aren't....you will only regret that decision probably sooner than later & end up feeling hurt in the process.