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Old Jan 04, 2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by LittleEarthquakes View Post
People, when I open up to them, push so hard for me to get a job or go to school or get a therapist so that I can magically fall into some kind of maybe positive routine and get better but I have what is supposed to be "the answer" in my hands and it's not working. Like when I did those things was I any better? Have you just run out of things to say to me. I feel people are stressed out with me; I know. I feel guilty.

It feels like my brain is rotting.

I laugh at other people for what they say to me sometimes. I'm disrespectful and acting self-indulgent and entitled and waiting for a person to save me or for a better mood. I feel disrespected and I'm letting resentment build because I'm stuck in my situation and can't crawl out and I hate that. It feels gross and mean and like sickness and I want it to disappear.
Sometimes, in my mind, I am very upset at people, they really bother me. I know that my feelings are not fair, but my feelings are just there, like my suffering from depression is there. Sometimes, I do not fight against those feelings, I let them be, I name them, I say I am angry, I am upset, then I feel better.
I think it is good you are writing about your feelings here. Somehow, it is going to help you
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Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out. Vaclav Havel
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