Hmmmm, let's see....he was married & cheating on his wife with this other woman then cheating on her with several other women???? & there is nothing about his behavior that's abusive to the women he's seeing?....& he's happy living the way he's living? Maybe his lifestyle is where his unhappiness is coming from?

If a woman feels she's been abused sometimes she fights back & it can look like abuse from the outside because she is fighting back & not quietly taking the abuse rather than getting out of the relationship