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Originally Posted by YMIHere
Well the down side is ppl can be shytty. Example: There's one thing I'm sort of choosy about who I share it with but if I spend time with you, it's a part of my life I ultimately spill. First person barely spoke to anyone but me so I know it never left her. Had a coworker who was very good to me - she gave me A LOT of rides home when my cat was broken down for months so I told her and her friend who does my hair. Well another friend at work asked me who I told because, "Mean Girl" just came and asked her if she heard. The friend also does MG's hair but I figure it's one of the 2. Hoping the hairdresser because I never swore her to secrecy, not figuring she's talking to other ppl from my job.
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Indeed. I think people are ****** most of the time, given the opportunity. That's part of the reason I don't trust people with information about me/my problems. I'm sorry that someone ended up sharing something that she obviously should have kept to herself.
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Originally Posted by YMIHere
All that being said while it was annoying knowing this b1tch has nothing better to do than talk about me, I really don't give a flying fvck what she thinks.
It's funny because my Little Sis is JUST LIKE ME. So is my best friend. Love me or hate me, it won't make or break me.
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That's a pretty healthy attitude, IMO. It bothers me to be rejected by anyone, even relative strangers or unimportant people (but of course it's a million times worse from anyone I care about). I wish I could just not care, but apparently I'm still struggling with self-validation, self-esteem, etc. My support network is also severely lacking.