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Originally Posted by eskielover
Hmmmm, let's see....he was married & cheating on his wife with this other woman then cheating on her with several other women???? & there is nothing about his behavior that's abusive to the women he's seeing?....& he's happy living the way he's living? Maybe his lifestyle is where his unhappiness is coming from?
If a woman feels she's been abused sometimes she fights back & it can look like abuse from the outside because she is fighting back & not quietly taking the abuse rather than getting out of the relationship
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No,this girl he is seeing knew and kept seeing him. That makes it her choice. I am not sure if he cheated on this girl or not,but honestly if she knew he cheated on someone that's his wife with several women including her,then i don't see why she should get any empathy. Why not feel bad for the wife? He does have unhappiness but I care for him deeply despite his mistakes. Though I think his relationship is flawed,I do think he could find someone if he gave himself time to work on himself but instead he's doing the whole "she's different" spiel but i'm more of a believer that you need time and space to heal from things. I worry for him because some of the things he does make me confused and I do wish he would consider psychotherapy.