Ouch, I'm so sorry...that really is a harsh thing to hear especially since our ultimate job is to have children.

I had a child before I knew that I was MI, and it's not been easy coming across as a sane parent in fulfilling all the child's emotional needs. If only I knew...

My biggest upset though was the genetic part...the passing of defective genes to the next generation. I love my offspring too much by not inflicting them with my genes by not having babies. I love them too much to do that to them. They don't deserve to suffer like I have suffered.

I love children though, if I could I would adopt instead.

I hope that you get to understanding.