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Originally Posted by Underground
. . .My emotions are always my own and never based on what someone else is feeling. The only times I relate to another's feelings is when I put them there and I feel what I did is great. . .
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I get it, I think, from the way my dad was. And maybe I'm kind of like that, too. Actually, it may be an overabundance of too much emotional empathy in a way.
It's like, I felt rejected from my mom and anger/hate resulted from that and I (my nervous system) turned the hate back on myself.
On the other hand, it's like my dad felt rejected, so but he/his nervous system turn off the hate, kept the love and focused it only on himself.
Does that make any sense to you?