Agree. He is being abusive.
Sounds rather like my NPD ex.
Told me I'm lazy, fat, stupid. That I had 'S##t for brains'
Would come in from work, I was a stay at home mum. Dinner would have to on the table or else there was trouble.
I was told I did nothing all day except sat on my fat a##e and watch TV he said the house was untidy.
'You can't even cook a boiled egg without f##king it up'

He went out I stayed in.
He didn't help at all and never took any notice of the children. Very hurtful.

The day I left that NPD creep was one of the best days of my life.
Such a relief not to get put down and bullied every day.
He hit me occasionally too when in one of his rages. He would blame that on 'stress at work'
There are NO Excuses for violence. There are NO exuses for endless criticism and ridicule.
I don't punch someone if I'm stressed!
It was my fault he say because I'd 'wound him up'
BS.
I am horrified I let someone treat me so very badly. But, in my ignorance of how life should be l thought I deserved nothing better.

So not true!!

Would be good to get away for a while, if possible.

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