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Originally Posted by DBTDiva
FWIW, I told my boyfriend about your experience with the broken foot, and how that kind of thing is something I fear, and he said "that guy is a douche!" If you know he won't change, you should move on. You deserve better! There has to be compromise in all relationships, even those where someone has kids. It sounds like he's using them as an excuse to have everything be his way.  |
Today I woke up with sore throat and not feeling well. I texted him that I don't feel all right. He texted me that he wants to get a day off and come and take care of me. He said he wants to make up for the time that my foot was broken. I told him "no thanks, I don't want you to get sick." I didn't say anything further like "DA! this is not the same as the time that I was totally disabled and I couldn't even walk!"
His mother is extremely abusive woman. I told him this is what your mother does and that's the behavior you learned.
I think these days my eyes are opening up and my feelings towards him is demolishing. He feels it and he's getting desperate, but it is too late.