Today I woke up with sore throat and not feeling well. I texted him that I don't feel all right. He texted me that he wants to get a day off and come and take care of me. He said he wants to make up for the time that my foot was broken. I told him "no thanks, I don't want you to get sick." I didn't say anything further like "DA! this is not the same as the time that I was totally disabled and I couldn't even walk!"
His mother is extremely abusive woman. I told him this is what your mother does and that's the behavior you learned.
I think these days my eyes are opening up and my feelings towards him is demolishing. He feels it and he's getting desperate, but it is too late.