Hello Andy T: Welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks! I've been married for well over 30 years. Marital relationships can be difficult to maintain. There is so much give-&-take necessary... so much foregiveness required. I still struggle every day in one way or another. Sometimes I marvel that my wife has managed to put up with me for all these years. I trust that you will be able to find others, here on PC, with whom you will be able to share your hopes & concerns. I wish you all the best...