You are completely right, this is a problem that his mother CREATED. And yes, in the end, our opinions don't really count, he is going to do what he wants. He has been ok, not TERRIBLY upset about her not working because he is very needy and wants her there at his beck and call, and she is happy to be.

His rent is 1000, car 300, insurance probably 300, utilities are probably 200 total and then gas and groceries. So yeah, even then, he shouldn't be having to get his mom to pay any of the rent. I don't know what he is doing with his money.

I am not stressing about it, which is pretty amazing because usually these thing flip me out. But THANK YOU! You are right! His mother created this mess and now she wants US to help her get out of it!!!

Ugh, now I am pissed at her! LOL!