lol I have had many similar issues to what the boyfriend is experincing and I hate saying to so but to a degee when I see these symptoms it kind of scares me into thinking I am going to have similar issues myself...brought on by his own anxiety.

Well what I mean new primary boyfriend is that I am a bisexual polyamorous women and I have two girlfriends that I am also dating and involved with currently, as well as two other women I am dating here in town.

So when I use the term primary for him, I mean that he is my main partner that I spend the most time with and that I also live with him.

lol the reason that I say "new" is cause a few months ago I was with a man that claimed he accepted me as bisexual as well as poly and i came to find, he was simply using that as a way for himself to get more sex if he wanted....or just get a possible threesome, out of it.

Which is not the same as excepting it, its just using it. And being poly is not someone saying they want to have excuse to have sex with any and everyone they want. Saying your are poly is stating that you can have serious committed relationships with more the one person that are based on trust, love, compassion, communication, and all kind of other emotions lol and lets not forget respect!