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Old Jan 06, 2016, 12:22 AM
laxer12 laxer12 is offline
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There were a couple of instances where my T said something and I said, "yeah, you're right" (because I agreed with her) and I was surprised with her reaction. She said something along the lines of, "Full disclosure, it makes me uncomfortable when you say that. I'm not trying to be right and I don't want you to feel like you need to agree with everything I say". When she said that, she actually made me uncomfortable which I know was not the intent but I appreciated her response.

It seems like T's really want us to come up with our own decisions and opinions and I guess some get uncomfortable when we say "you're right". I think it's okay to agree with them but I now say "I agree" rather than "you're right".
Thanks for this!
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